Those of us who have children desire the
absolute best for them. We desire good health, good family
relationships, good grades, excellence in all of life's exploits.
If our child has a physical illness and a medical doctor
prescribes a medicine that will make a child well, we are quick to
pursue the solution. If daycare is necessary, we want someone who will
nurture the child. If our child has physical health, mental health or
cognitive challenges, we pursue professional help because we believe
that they know what is best. As a parent, you have probably been
through many of these scenarios. However, the most critical and
professional advice that one may have received is from the child's
teachers. My child's teachers recommended that I read to my child. I
replied that my child (in first grade and reading at a sixth grade
level) could now read by himself. The teacher replied, "No, you still
read to him. He needs to hear your voice. Children love the sound of
their parents voice. The inflection of your voice is also important to
their understanding. Also, cuddling beside you is critical to their
well being." I took the teacher seriously. My husband and I still read
together with our child (14 years old and excels in language arts). It
is a great and profitable family time. Our child loves to be with us.
Wow! That's a miracle as he is a teenager! As a Physical Educator, I
also practice the same advice. My husband and I spend time with our
son pursuing physical activity together.
When our son was a baby, we played and danced with and tickled him. We
involed him in a lot of fun music. As he got older,
we taught him
motor skills, how to catch and throw, we played tag, rode bicycles,
rollerbladed, ice skated, rock climbed, particpated in gymnastics and
other sports. At the same time, we were
building and establishing our love and strength as a family. As a
professional Physical Educator, I cannot express enough to you how
critical your interaction with your child is to his mental well
being. I understand that the requirements of our careers and
other issues can cause fatigue and make us think that we don't have
time. Where there is a desire, there is a way. Don't become the father
in Cat Steven's "Cat's In The Cradle". Take control of what belongs to
you, your children. Provide them the excellence that is available in a
family relationships.
Don't ever relenquish your influence on your children. They may learn
from other people, and that is important too. But, don't rely on others
to be the primary builders of your children's morals, and memories.
This web page is being presented to give you some resources to help
your children and you as a family. I am not an expert, but I know as a
parent, I have been assisted by many individuals. I will post physical
development information for children as well as anticdotes to promote
mental health prosperity.
Move: Physical,
Social, Intellectual and Social Development
of
Five and Six Year Olds
Grow: Activities that Help
Fives and Sixes to Grow
Skills:
What Motor Skills Do Fives and Sixes Have?
Safety: Moving and Growing
Involves Safety Awareness
Water Safety: Summer is fast approaching. Safety =Fun
Girls
are more involved in athletics more than ever before.